A Wife’s Rebellion Against Her Husband
my muslim wife hates me so much I don’t know what to do//for 35 years she refuses intimacy/ I love her and live a life all alone//I have give her a house to live in //money to spent/ holidays expences well every thing make her comfortable//when I see her hating me I just melt like an ice cube//I don’t hit her nor am I rude to // I am gentle kind person///when I try to discuss the issue/ she becomes histirical with rage and picks up shoes and starts hitting me// I just don’t know what a poor husbands to do//I notice she has lots of emails from other Pakistani men and she spends ages on her mobile // she puts on the best dresses that I buy her and goes out with out a word to me and comes lhome late in after noon//// she does not go out with me when I ask her politely// she refuces councelling say don’t bring sheikh from mosque to reconcile as I will tell him off and will be abusive you have been warned////my name is shahid//my wifes name is tallat// can you advise please///
Dear Brother Shahid,
You should have divorced your wife a long time ago. You cannot love her because if you do you love evil. Please read your prayers 5 times a day, read and listen to Quran as much as you can as your heart will find peace. Allah is aware of everything. Maybe he will give you a pious and beautiful wife in the hereafter. Spend as much as you can on charity as you will get more reward than spending on a evil wife. Focus on Allah not your wife as she will take you to hell as well. Life in this world is temporary. Put your trust in Allah only to guide you.
I will pray for you brother.
Greetings from Wisconsin. This is what I mainly see here in the U.S. There are many ethnic Muslims that don’t follow Islam, but many American Muslim converts follow Islam more closely. Another facts is that the very good and lovely wives are mistreated by wicked husbands and very religious husbands have dreadful wives. I am an American convert and I am not treated well by my husband, Walahi. There is recourse for these matters. My God your wife is lucky to have you for a husband. Many of us sister’s would love to be cared for in such a beautiful way. May Allah ease your suffering and Bless you abundantly.
As salamu a’laikum sister. I really respect your opinion but you should know that the facts which you’ve mentioned above is a test from Allah and only He knows what wisdom lays behind it. Perhaps this test is good or bad for both or vice versa. In the beginning before the marriage no one knows if the man becomes a wicked husband and lady becomes a dreadful wife. And no one even thinks about that or wishes such things to each other. Sometimes I think I’m the worst husband in the world and sometimes I think my wife is the worst in the world and she thinks the same. May Allah guide us and give us a patience!
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